# A very good example of how to talk to PJ folks:

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**Created:** [March 20, 2007, 7:00pm UTC](https://forum.orgones.co.uk/t/a-very-good-example-of-how-to-talk-to-pj-folks/3808 "2007-03-20T19:00:00Z")\
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**Author:** ![Don\_Croft](https://forum.orgones.co.uk/user_avatar/forum.orgones.co.uk/don_croft/32/124_2.png) [@Don\_Croft](https://forum.orgones.co.uk/u/Don_Croft)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2007, 7:00pm UTC](https://forum.orgones.co.uk/t/a-very-good-example-of-how-to-talk-to-pj-folks/3808/1 "2007-03-20T19:00:00Z")

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This is from our friend, Kulwant, in Santa Fe, who I’ll now invite to post on EW:

Hello Don,  
Part of the challenge of waking up is having to deal with all those who are  
still asleep. Happily, many are just starting to wake up, and that is  
always nice to see. However, I have discovered that the process of  
assisting them is not one to be taken lightly! (Sometimes, also, it is often  
best to leave well enough alone- depending on the situation-no sense in  
wasting one’s time.) They can’t be rushed, or they will want to go right  
back to sleep.

I am convinced that appliances such as microwave ovens are instrumental in  
keeping them asleep. One very subtle and slowly effective way to show that  
such appliances are harmful is to demonstrate an intolerance for their use.

I went out to eat with some friends and made it a point to ask if any of the  
food is prepared with (microwave ovens. I was told that it was, so I made  
it clear I would not eat there. I did not insist we go somewhere else, and  
was content to stay and watch everyone else order food and subsequently eat  
it.

They were all getting more and more uncomfortable with me not eating, and  
when asked, I replied that I refused to eat any food that had been  
microwaved, and that I would not eat at an establishment which used  
microwaves in any of their preparations.

Of course, they then said we could have gone somewhere else, and I said,  
“No, that’s OK, you like the food here, and I would not wish to be  
inconvenient. I can eat later.” One lady, getting rather cantankerous,  
said,“You won’t eat microwaved food at all!?” I told her “No, I won’t.”, in  
my politest manner. She put down her fork (a hopeful sign) and asked,“Why  
not?” I told her where she could go to do her own research, and she really  
got a bit huffy at that.

I stated that when I observed that Russia will not even allow the citizens  
of that country to have microwave ovens in their homes that was really  
something to think about. At that point one of the other ladies said, “You  
know, that makes sense. They have enough to worry about with so many of  
their citizens becoming alcoholic; they probably don’t want to have to worry  
about them getting cancer, too.” She, by the way, was eating fresh fruit  
and salad.

Ms Cantankerous then stated, “Well, it is realy inconvenient that you won’t  
eat here. I wish you had told me you wouldn’t eat here.” “I was not aware  
that they microwaved their food. If I had been, I would certainly have  
spoken up, rest assured.”, I replied. She gave me a puzzled look, since my  
tone was totally non-combative. I then suggested, “Try an experiment. Go  
to XYZ Restaurant, and order the exact same dish you are having here now.  
Then, the next day, come back here and order the same dish. See if you can  
taste the difference.” Now, Ms Cantankerous prides herself on having a very  
sophisticated palate. XYZ, when they first opened, had made it a point to  
never use strange, outlandish things like microwave ovens in the cooking of  
their food.

A few days later, I got a phone call from her, and she was amazed. "You are  
right! There is a big difference! Maybe the microwaved food is not as  
good!" I am very happy that I had kept my demeanor as neutral as possible;  
had I given in to my first wish to go toe-to-toe with her she would never  
have actually tried to see the difference.

As long as I stay neutral and polite in my approach I have found that even  
those who are still asleep become curious enough to think about waking up.  
It keeps me on my toes, making sure I don’t go into emotional reactions when  
confronted with some of the words and actions of those still asleep.

As I continue to monitor my own states and reactions it does get easier; I  
believe it has to do with exercising the muscles of discernment, so to  
speak. Of course, items like WakeUp certainly help, as does working with  
the various devices!

The confirmations of gifting certainly help, too!

(An interesting side note: it appears that as one’s discernment abilities  
increase, literally one’s posture improves! My posture is the best it has  
ever been, and I have lots more energy! Shall keep tabs on this, and let  
you know further observations.)

Got the package from Carol- they are wonderful devices! She is just  
astounding!

Shall keep you posted- Thank you for all that you all are doing!  
Cheers,  
Kulwant